Monthly Archive for December, 2006

Congrats Chris & Sally!

The 10th of each month is always a good day for me, being payday. This month was extra special though- it was Chris and Sally’s wedding day.

I’ve only known Chris for just over a year but in that time he’s become a good mate. He’s an intelligent and open-minded guy with a wicked sense of humour. He loves his surfing and doesn’t mind the odd beverage. His spontaneity after a few drinks has already become legendary amongst Tokushima’s foreign population (and any poor unsuspecting local that may have been unfortunate enough to cross his path at such times).

The wild beast has been tamed (to some degree) by his fair maiden, Sally. As you might expect from her name, Sally is not Japanese, though she has lived here quite a long time. She is originally from Peru and therefore speaks Spanish as well as Japanese. Thanks to Chris’ travel experience in South America, he and Sally could overcome the usual language barrier problems by conversing in Spanish. (They can also speak quite openly without fear of recrimination so long as there are no other Spanish speakers present!)

Sally and Chris’ relationship soon blossomed after they met. It soon became clear to all of us that there was some special chemistry between the two of them. When Chris broke the news to me that Sally had become pregnant it was clear that he was much more happy than worried about the sudden development. With Sally’s Latin/Catholic heritage though there was only one path to take – marriage.


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So on December 10th at a small church here in Tokushima, Chris and Sally tied the knot. It was a relatively simple affair. The ceremony was conducted in Japanese with some additional comments in English and a touch of Spanish. Naturally the bride and groom’s families were present, along with an international mix of friends.

Following the ceremony, the reception was held at ‘ Tango’, a sizeable bar in the downtown area. After toasting the newly-weds with champagne, guests were able to enjoy dinner and an open bar. Most dishes were western variety, placed on the bar so that we could help ourselves to as much as we wished. Everybody ate, drank and got merry!

It felt kind of nostalgic to me to be at the wedding with Yoko. (To think it’s been seven years since we exchanged vows!) Reni also enjoyed himself I think. Besides Sally and Chris he seemed to be the main attraction for many guests. The highlight of the night for him was when he found a playmate – the flower girl. After they began playing together we didn’t see him at our table for ages!

Congratulations Sally and Chris. You guys make an awesome couple. We look forward to the birth of your child (followed shortly after by our second). Thanks also to both your families for being so warm and kind and sharing such a special day with us.

The boys return.

It’s been a while since I wrote, (or worked for that matter). I took time off last week to hang out with the “Potty boys” as Cameron and Rafe returned to Tokushima for Chris’ wedding.

The boys were fortunate enough to get some accommodation for their stay. Our friends Aaron and Becky had to return to Australia suddenly and kindly let the boys break in and stay. While they had a house, they didn’t have any transport. So I brought our Delica to the rescue!

For our first adventure I took the boys out to ‘God’s Mountain’, Kamiyama, to find some minus-ion energy at a waterfall. I’d originally planned to search for a waterfall I hadn’t been to before. I didn’t have a detailed enough map to find it though so I settled on Amagoi waterfall, one of the top 100 falls in Japan incidentally.

The boys were well impressed with the location. The mixture of fresh air, running water and solitude was refreshing. Along the way to the main fall we admired a number of picturesque smaller falls and marvelled at the magnitude of some of the boulders.


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After the steep hike to the main fall, with the assistance of a chain bolted to the rockface, we climbed to the upper fall. The view from above was impressive and beautified by the remaining autumn leaves. Amagoi is such a special place I don’t think it would matter how many times you’ve been.

We had planned to go on a surfing trip too, but this didn’t eventuate as early as originally planned. We eventually managed to get away after Chris and Sally’s big day. Instead of going on an overnight trip to the Japan Sea we settled for a day trip down the coast to Ozaki surf point on the Muroto Peninsula.

Although the day was overcast, the waves were actually quite reasonable. Being a weekday, the line-up was relatively uncrowded. (You won’t find too many government-sponsored surfers here!) The boys enjoyed a change of equipment (I think), using my funboards for the day.


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We also spent a few evenings together, both at the house and on the town. Needless to say, a fair amount of imbibing occurred. I’m still paying for it now in fact- I put on a few more kilos than I expected!

Forget it!

December is here already! Being a Buddhist/Shinto/atheist country, Christmas does not have a huge amount of significance here in Nihon. It’s regarded by some people as a romantic time for young couples to exchange gifts. It’s also a time for young families when ‘Santa’ visits on Christmas Eve, leaving presents for young children to open on Christmas Day.
Naturally, being a country that readily embraces consumerism, Christmas decorations adorn many shopfronts. Christmas is entirely about Santa here however. Jesus Christ barely rates a mention. In fact, many Japanese are even unaware that Christmas is a Christian celebration!   
Christmas is overshadowed here by the New Year. New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day is a far more auspicious occasion here. In many ways it is the Australian equivalent of Christmas- a time to spend at home, enjoying a meal with the family and/or relatives.
The countdown to New Year is also more prominent than the countdown to Christmas. All throughout December there are work/social parties to say farewell to the year passed. These parties are known as Bounen-kai (忘年会), which literally translated means ‘forget the year’ party.
So how does one go about forgetting the year, (presuming you’re still able to remember it)? How else, but by getting smashed?! The bounen-kai is a time to relax and have a few drinks. Traditionally it begins with a speech and toast. Food and drinks follow. It is custom to ensure that the people sitting near you never have an empty glass. This ensures that they get at least as drunk as you. Thus, everybody has a good time!
Last Saturday was the bounen-kai for a surfshop I regularly go to. From what I recall, it was a good party. About 40 people attended. For 4000yen we had an abundance of food and unlimited beer.  Following the party everybody moved on to a nightclub to really unwind, dance and have a few more drinks. That was ’the real bounen-kai’ for me. I’m still wondering where a few hours went. (I think the comfortable sofa in the corner might hold the answer to that mystery!:roll: ) 
 


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