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On stage!

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On the same weekend Norikazu married Reni performed in a concert for his & Syd’s daycare centre. (Syd is still too young though he is a performer in his own right!)

J-Foto.com Blog Photo BlogI admit I am a little biased however Reni’s class was without doubt the stars of the show. They performed a play titled “Buremen no ongakutai” (The Band of Bremen) as well as the opening and closing numbers.

J-Foto.com Blog Photo BlogReni was one of four robbers in the play. He and his mates looked very cool in their black and blue robber costumes. They clearly enjoyed their roles too.

I found the storyline hard to follow since I was near the back of the room (thus the poor quality photos, sorry!) and everything was in Japanese. Even still I enjoyed the show and was very proud of the effort Reni made.


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Tying the knot.

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Last weekend we visited Kyoto for Yoko’s brother, Norikazu’s wedding. Norikazu married Yukari, who comes from Shido in Kagawa, the next prefecture from us (about 40mins drive). Shido also happens to be Syd’s name in Japanese.

The wedding was held at Shimogamo Shrine, the same shrine that Yoko and I married in. It felt strange going back there observing the ceremony almost 10 years on since we went through the same rituals.


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Yukari wore the traditional Japanese bridal wear; all white kimono, face painted geisha-like white with a large white bonnet enclosing her head. (The odd bonnet is supposedly to cover the woman’s horns though Yukari seems far too sweet to be a devil I think.)

We had an individual building within the shrine to use as a waiting room. People were very curious to see us in there, particularly me, the foreigner. After the women had changed into kimonos or dresses and the men into suits, the shrine staff came to escort us into the inner sanctum of the shrine for the wedding.


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No pictures are allowed at a traditional wedding. Besides the costumes of the bride and groom and the priest and his assistants, it is the aural rather than the visual that is the most striking feature of the ceremony. The strange traditional flutes that are used create a kind of haunting, melancholy atmosphere while the prayers of the priest are recited in a hypnotic, mantra-like fashion.

There are a number of rituals to be observed during the wedding. We repeatedly had to stand up and bow to be blessed or to pray throughout the ceremony. Norikazu and Yukari also had to consume sake 3 times each by themselves and then once more with the guests. (Yukari looked like she got a bit rosy from it!) Reni was being such a good boy during the wedding trying to follow the correct procedure that he drank the sake put on the saucer before him. Those of us that saw him do it could not help but laugh despite the solemn atmosphere.


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After the ceremony there were of course photos to be taken. I believe the photographers were actually the same people that did our wedding. They were very professional and particular once again. Yukari also had to change out of the traditional bridal costume into a kimono so the photo session took some time.

Once the photo session was completed it was time for the reception. This was also held at the shrine. After some brief speeches and toasting the newly-weds, we were served a meal of many courses. Most of the food was traditional Japanese cuisine; lots of seafood and very tasty.


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The wedding was a very low-key affair. Only the immediate families and a few close friends attended. Following the reception there was no ’second’ party. After changing back into their everyday wear everybody had returned to their home or hotel by 7pm.


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Congatulations Norikazu and Yukari. Much happiness to you both and thanks for a lovely afternoon out!


G-chan & R-chan visit

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It’s always nice to have Yoko’s parents visit us in Tokushima. Although they live only about 3 hours drive away in Kyoto, it’s quite an expensive trip. The toll to cross the bridge from the mainland to Awaji Island is very steep (about 6000yen or $60). The cost and various commitments we all have prevents us from meeting so often.


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Of course Yoko’s parents are proud grandparents.They adore Reni & Syd and the feeling is obviously mutual. Instead of using the formal terms Ojii-san and Obaa-san, the boys call their grandad and grandma G-chan and R-chan respectively. Naturally Yoko’s parents love treating the boys however they don’t spoil them too much like some grandparents do.


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A few weeks back, Yoko’s folks visited to help us prepare for Yoko’s brother, Norikazu’s wedding. We went shopping and dined out together as we often do. We also went to a local festival in Tokushima city. Except for a small accident when Yoko’s mum fell, (cutting her chin and bruising her hand), we had a great weekend together.


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Family excursion

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The weekend before last we went on an excursion with Syd and Reni’s daycare centre. We went by bus to Yashima, a highland area overlooking Takamatsu, the capital city of neighbouring Kagawa Prefecture.


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At Yashima after posing for a group portrait we visited an aquarium. After watching the dolphin and sea lion shows we had lunch then checked out some other the other marine life kept there.The boys really enjoyed seeing all the different creatures.


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The weather was beautiful and there were no accidents or tantrums (from me). A big thanks to Mebae daycare centre for such a great day.


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panda head boys

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Syd and Reni posed for us under Yoko’s umbrella with Syd’s new winter panda cap. Looking forward to a trip to the snow with Nanna and Pa!


happy hiking

The weather forecast said it would be becoming fine in the afternoon so I thought we would be able to enjoy some time outside yesterday. I’d been meaning to visit my futsal team-mate, Kwadro, for some time. He lives out in Kamikatsu, deep into the mountains about an hour’s drive from Tokushima. Since he was celebrating his birthday over the weekend, I thought it would be an ideal time to visit.


I went out to Kamikatsu a few years backs with my mates, En & Latch, to hike Mt Takamaru. The bright yellow and orange autumn leaves of the preserved beech wood (buna) forest at the foot of the mountain enchanted me. I was keen to see it again and enjoy it with the family.


The sky remained overcast with ocassional drizzle despite the optimistic forecast as we set off after lunch. The boys were soon fast asleep as we followed the river deeper and deeper into the mountains. By the time we arrived at Takamaru-san they had awoken and were keen to get out of the car and play. Meanwhile Yoko had become tired and her stomach sore. With light drizzle still falling there was no way she was in the mood for a walk in the forest.


After loading Syd into our backpack style carrier and putting him onto my back, he, Reni and I set off, leaving Yoko to rest in the car. The trail was quite steep but reasonably dry thanks to the cover provided by the trees. As we slowly made our way uphill Reni stopped every now and then to collect the biggest leaves he could find. I joined in too, collecting as many different colour and shape leaves as I could.


Once again the beauty of the forest entranced me, inspiring me to push on higher and deeper into the forest. By the time we reached a fresh water source, the 10kg plus load on my back (Syd) had begun to feel quite heavy. The trail appeared to get steeper too. After a refreshing drink I decided it was time we turned back.


Reni raced back downhill, leaving Syd and I to follow in his footsteps. By the time we returned to the car the boys and I had built up quite an appetite. After snacking on bananas and bread we coasted back downhill to meet Kwadro at a small cafe rest area overlooking a dam. The ladies in the shop were really taken by Syd and Reni. So much so in fact, one of them even gave us a bag of brown sugar candy. How sweet!


happy campers

Wide open space, blue sky, green grass, sandy beaches (even some fun waves!), good food and friends. What a great long weekend we just had down south in Kochi. I couldn’t have asked for more (except perhaps for better surf).

As per usual our departure time was delayed, so it wasn’t until about 3pm that we eventually managed to get away from Tokushima. After passing through the many tunnels that disect Shikoku’s rugged mountainous interior, we reached the south coast of the island. It was still a considerable drive after exiting the highway, so it was well and truly dark by the time we reached our destination, a campground by Irino-Matsubara Beach.

Our friends En, Chiharu & Latch had arrived ahead of us and kindly reserved a campsite for us. They also very kindly helped us erect our tent after we arrived. After putting Reni and Syd to bed, we enjoyed a few beers and a delicious spicy Indian-style curry cooked by Latch.


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The following day the weather was gorgeous. After a leisurely breakfast En, Chiharu, Latch and I headed off for a surf. The beach was only a short walk from the campground along a trail through a thin strip of protective pines. Yoko and the boys followed soon after. While they built sandcastles and dipped their feet, we enjoyed the small fun waves.

After a pleasant morning at the beach we headed off down the road in search of an udon noodle restaurant owned by an acquaintance, Manabu, a local surfer. Following a good hearty slurping of noodles we went outside to soak up the sun and enjoy the fantastic location. The boys had a ball running around,laughing and playing on the big wooden deck and wide expanse of lawn beachside.

The day finished as it had begun for us guys - in the water. While we surfed, Yoko and Chiharu took the boys to a nearby horse stable. The boys were curious about the horses but didn’t get a good chance to see them as they’d already been put inside for the night.


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Our second night was much the same as our first. After a wash at the local onsen baths we gave Syd and Reni their dinner and put them to bed. For our dinner we enjoyed some local fish and snacks and another spicy curry, again courtesy of Latch.

The last day of our trip also wasa repeat of the previous day. While we went surfing Yoko and the boys went back to the stables. This time the horses were outside and within reach. Reni was quite prepared to pat them (unlike dogs) however often fearless Syd took a while and a cried a few tears before he overcame his fear.

To complete our trip we had udon noodles for lunch once again. After allowing the boys some time to burn up some energy running about we set off on the long drive back home, content after a relaxing and enjoyable weekend.


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Baseball

Yoko was not feeling well and wanted some peace and quiet last Sunday so I took the boys out for the day with my good friend, Jodi to see the local baseball team, the Indigo Socks. One of their players Andy Utting an Aussie who frequents the local occasionally, kindly arranged free tickets to the game for us.


The game was at the ‘ugly stadium’(actually ‘aguri’, presumably short for agriculture) in Anan, about an hour’s drive south of Tokushima. Although the weather was bad in the city it was ok at the game until just near the end. Andy played really well, hitting two home runs but unfortunately his team-mates failed to add any more runs, the Socks going down 4-2 to the Kochi Fighting Dogs.


After the game we went to a park by the stadium. While I pushed Syd in his pram Reni raced Jodi to the playground (and claimed victory!). The boys had a terrific time playing there, riding a slide together, climbing and swinging.


Back in the old capital, Kyoto

J-Foto.com Blog Photo BlogThomas!There’s been quite a few public holidays recently. It’s been good. Today is a holiday for the autumn equinox, Shubun-no-hi. What does that mean? Basically that  night and day will be the same length today but from here on the days will become shorter. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equinox

 

J-Foto.com Blog Photo BlogrockhopperThe public holiday prior to today was Respect for the Elderly Day, Roujin-ho-hi. To mark the occasion we went to Kyoto so Yoko’s parents could enjoy some time with their grandchildren. (The boys’ daycare centre also sent cards to their grandparents in Australia - a very nice touch I thought.)

 

J-Foto.com Blog Photo BlogjokerWhile we were in Kyoto Yoko’s parents took Syd out for the day while Yoko met a friend and I hung out with Reni. We went on a Shinkansen bullet-train mission as Reni was eager to ride it for the first time. After a long walk (and piggy-back) to the subway station we got a train to Kyoto station. From there we took a ride (in reserved seating, no less!) to Osaka then back again.

 

J-Foto.com Blog Photo Blogfamily funBack at Kyoto station we enjoyed some udon noodles for lunch. On our way home we stopped at the Kamo River. The water level was so low I was able to give Reni a piggy-back to the other bank, probably much to the surprise of the pedestrians on the bridge above.

 

J-Foto.com Blog Photo Blogbig boysThe following day we spent time together as a family at our friends, Bob and Katsue’s house. They have two lovely kids, Billy and Saya, aged 6 and 5 respectively. Following a delicious home-made pizza lunch some other good friends, Mike and Yuko dropped by with their 3 boys to say hello. They very kindly give us a ride home to Yoko’s parents place -an ideal way to end a great weekend. Thank you all!

 

The one that got away…

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Us three Aussie stooges, Mitch, Chris and I, headed off down the coast, keen to get in the water . Amazingly we didn’t take any surfboards. There seemed no point, it had been flat for so long.


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Mitch had brought his skin-diving gear; mask, snorkel, fins and spear. While Chris and I struggled to climb the rocks without slashing our hands on the multitude of barnacles, he disappeared around the headland in search of prey.


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Just when we were wondering where he’d got to, Mitch reappeared with spear raised, fish attached. Chris and I were quite impressed by the size of his catch. Mitch was less than impressed however when the first fish he’d ever speared escaped while he was endeavouring to get ashore.

It really was that big.